| The upanayana
ceremony was conducted for both sexes in ancient India. Naturally there
are similar ceremonies in other countries and cultures. The word for Christians
is CONFIRMATION. This is one of the 'sacraments'. The sacrament is a deformed
version of SAMASKARA. The jews tie a thread of several strands, others
tie on their waist, etc. I saw a video of an upanayana ceremony conducted
in Andhra by Swamini Sharadapriyananda for her students. She is trying
to revive the ceremony for girls. Indeed all her female disciples get the
holy thread. Gayetri mantra is found in Soorya Upanishad. Swamini Sharada
loves teaching tht text. It is indeed very powerful. It is intersting to
note that She has deidcated her life to serving the villagers of a remote
area in Andhra where, in addition to her vedanta mission, she teaches villagers
how to farm and how to interact with the beaurocrats of the state Govt.
She used to be a lawyer in Hyderabad. In any case I believe we will be
seeing more and more cultured hindus allow their female children to be
initiated as well. It is a matter of balancing 'what is right' with 'family/society
pressures'.
Hari Om !
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| Yagnopavit is
symbolic of the initiation of a householder into performing his threefold
duties to the household, to his devas, and to his pitras - hence the three
strands with brahmagandh or divine knot and three ways of wearing it (over
the right shoulder, over the left shoulder, and round the neck only) as
a necessary ritual tool when performing these three duties. On his marriage
a householder gets three more strands on behalf of his wife. Its use and
significance is limited to ritualistic practices only that is why a sanyasi
does not wear it and under very special circumstances the un-initiated
is temporarily invested with it to perform certain rites only. Since males
are usually called upon to perform rites or ritualistic practices as active
participants, they alone are invested with the sacred thread. This does
not, however, mean that women are barred from active participation in religious
or ritualistic practices, they are only exempted for so many important
reasons. Wearing or otherwise of yagnopavit has nothing to do with the
incantation of Gayatri Mantra or for that matter with any other spiritual
practice. Had it been so we wouldn't have such spiritual luminaries as
Gargi, Maitri, Savitri, Lala-ded, Ropa-bhawani, or a later-day sadhvi like
Mathra-devi.
Wearing the sacred thread did not make a householder in any way superior or better than his womenfolk; however, as a caste mark it gave him distinction among other men. That women without wearing the Yonya/ janayu have an active and important part in ritualistic practices, is understood from the fact that a Maikhla ceremony among KPs cannot be thought of without devichi-tabich, diviti-gool, vaari-dan, maasa-abhid etc. etc. The practice of initiating into wearing a girdle by both boys and girls is not exclusive to Parsis only. We have perhaps forgotten that 'aet-pun' was worn by both the sexes among KPs. A black cord of several strands is even now worn as a girdle by small children in many communities, including some adivasis, at an initiation ceremony. Regards,
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| My dear **************
has suggested that I write abrief note on Yajnopavit, and the reason why
we call it Mekhal in Kashmiri. In my younger days I posed this question
to my family priest late Vasanand Zadoo, a saint scholar in his own right.
Before I explain what his reply was let me first say that there are sixteen
(Sanskaras) rituals to be performed from the pre-natal to the post death
period. Their method, mantras and other details have been prescribed by
Rishi Katyayana for the entire Hindu Community. In Kashmir, however, we
follow these with some modifications as prescribed by Rishi Logaksha for
us. The rituals begin with ‘Punaswan’ (please recall the ritual of Sondar
after the birth of a child, when ladies utter the phrase, Shokh
ta ponasun.) These culminate with Shraddha ceremony, and include kahanethar,
yajnopavit, Vivah etc.
Yajnopavit is a ritual when three strings of the holy thread are put on the left shoulder and under the right arm of a child, usually at the age of 8 or so after due yajna or sacrificial fire ritual. This is the time when the child is initiated to the formal education in a Gurukula. The ceremony is called ‘Upanayana’ also, which means to bring near the teacher for initiation. We call it ‘Mekhala’, which is that rope which is tied round the waist of the child at the time of the ceremony and later takes the form of a thread worn round the waste called the ‘Aatpan’ (now almost in disuse). Mekhala means a circular shape or boundary reminding us of the limits within which to function and which are not to be transgressed. It also means contributing intellectually to the ether, which is the storehouse of thought. ‘Me’ means intellect; ‘Kha’ means the sky or ether and ‘La’ means putting into; in other words contributing one’s intellect to the ether, which is supposed to store the entire thought of the mankind. The idea is that after the yajnopavit ceremony, the child will be in a position to start contributing his thoughts, perceptions and ideas to the world’s treasure of philosophy. This is the reason that the last part of the ‘Gayatri Maha Mantra’ is a prayer in which we beg of the Lord to enlighten our intellect. We say’ ‘Dhiyo yo nah prachodayat’. Trilokinath Dhar
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